This young woman, who is a fitness model, must be prepared to pose in a bikini for photoshoots as part of her employment in the fitness industry. Although her job requires her to wear almost nothing in front of strangers, she also has to deal with the fact that her husband’s profession requires him to sleep with different women each week.
Her name is Katy and she decided to get married with s-x coach Robbie after a three-month engagement because they are in love; however, she also had to accept his profession as a porn star. “I forget sometimes that this is our life, and we live this way every day…, and I’m actually married to a po-n star,” Katy wrote in an Instagram post. Meanwhile, Katy’s husband, Robbie, insists that the s-x he does for pay is a lot different than the love-making he does with his new wife. “The s-x that I have at work, and the s-x that I have at home, are completely different,” says adult entertainment star Robbie.
Despite the fact that Katy and Robbie hit it off immediately upon meeting, she was initially wary of her future husband due to the nature of his occupation. “The first time I saw Rob was on Instagram. I judged him for being a s-x worker. I saw his page and thought this is not something I’m interested in,” Katy said. “I was judging because I thought, ‘oh, he’s been with a lot of girls,’ and I didn’t want to put myself into that scenario. But that was also probably a lot of my own ego because of my conditioning from society and the judgments about what you should do in life. Meeting Rob and getting to know him really changed my perception.”
Robbie was open to discussing boundaries, so long as he was permitted to continue sleeping with other women for the duration of his employment. Regarding Robbie’s line of work, they were able to hold a conversation and reach an agreement. And Katy is content with the status quo so long as Robbie is routinely tested for STDs and wears a condom with his various s-x partners when possible, which is not always the case because porn directors want scenes to appear “natural.”
“People on social media think this is our lifestyle, and we’re like this 24/7, and he’s constantly having s-x with other people, and we’re constantly in the swingers environment… but we’re really not,” Katy said.
When Robbie is not filming s-x videos with other partners, they spend a lot of time together. They enjoy going to the gym, cooking food, and filming TikTok videos. In addition, each week there is a “Katy day” in which Robbie must prioritize his wife over the women at his workplace.
“A specific day where we commit to each other, stay present, voice our thoughts and feelings, have awkward conversations, learn more about each other, experience new things, dive deep through tantra connections, and share all our love,” she said. “Amongst the crazy thing called life, we find it important that we put aside time for ourselves to connect. Rob is my rock, and our relationship is the most secure, beautiful thing ever because we make it that way.”